Things Women Secretly Hate: Specific traits like confidence, charm, and persistence believed to woo women have become the most glaringly mistaken ideas among men. Somewhere along the path, these ideas often distort into behaviours a woman certainly dislikes. Here are five common things men believe please women, yet in truth, irk them.
The exaggerated macho posture- to see oneself as dominant, possessive, or overly “protective” is often confused with power. The immature and annoying is how women generally see such behavior. Confidence is sexy, whilst control and aggression bring nothing attractive. True strength is an ability to respect, emotionally balance, and treat one’s partner as an equal.
Many men think suppressing emotions is a show of strength or unsolved mystery. Not one bit. Emotional intelligence and vulnerability appeal far more. Women love men who express themselves honestly rather than bottling things up or putting on a tough front.
Praise is required when the compliment is honest. Constantly telling her how great she looks over and over can come off as just used and shallow. Women want appreciation for personality, values, and intelligence as well. A real compliment establishes a mutual bond between the giver and receiver and does not flatter.
Being the perfect boyfriend usually works against you since this means trying to agree with every opinion and interest she may have. It isn’t true. Women like men that have their own interests, opinions, and limits. If you just accept things to keep her happy, it seems that you do not have opinion at all.
Perseverance is seen as romantic, but it’s just another way of saying not giving a damn about her boundaries. Stopping when told is the sign of maturity and respect. When a woman says no, it is a no-she means it and doesn’t want you to try harder.
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