Extramarital Affairs: In recent years, the number of extramarital affairs in India has seen a significant rise. From couples who’ve barely completed a year of marriage to those who have spent three decades together, no group seems immune to this growing phenomenon. Experts and observers agree that there isn’t just one reason behind this trend—multiple emotional, psychological, economic, and social factors are contributing.
Marriage, at its core, is a sacred bond built on trust, companionship, and commitment. Two individuals from different backgrounds unite with a promise to stay loyal and supportive of each other throughout life. However, for some, this promise fades midway—some end their journey, while others veer off into “side paths” while still walking together.
Observers suggest that the surge in extramarital affairs is more prominent in urban areas compared to rural settings. Various triggers have been identified, including financial stress, lack of emotional connection, and the influence of digital technology.
Financial difficulties are often cited as a major reason for marital discord. When money becomes a persistent stressor, it can affect not just the emotional bond but also physical intimacy between partners. In such situations, individuals may seek comfort and emotional or physical fulfillment outside their marriage.
Some feel their partner no longer meets their emotional or physical needs and begin to look elsewhere for connection and satisfaction. The absence of open communication and mutual understanding further deepens the divide.
In relationships where mutual respect and trust are the foundation rather than deep emotional connection, the gradual erosion of that trust can trigger suspicion and insecurity. In some cases, one partner responds with a “tit-for-tat” mindset, choosing infidelity as a form of emotional retaliation. This cycle leads to a breakdown of the marital bond and increases the likelihood of extramarital involvement.
The rise of social media and dating platforms has made it easier than ever to form new connections. What may start as harmless chatting can escalate into emotional or physical affairs. With increased privacy and access, individuals can now explore relationships beyond their marriage without immediate consequences, making digital platforms a major contributor to infidelity today.
A more unsettling reason cited by psychologists is the modern obsession with novelty. There’s a growing mindset of “new is exciting, old is boring,” leading people to seek thrill and validation outside their marriage. Some liken it to the crude mindset of “after the festival, it’s old”—an unhealthy but increasingly common way of justifying infidelity.
This desire for novelty may be driven by both physical attraction and psychological curiosity. As individuals chase something “new,” they often disregard the emotional impact and long-term consequences of their actions.
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